Confirmation is the STRENGTHENING sacrament, which deepens our baptismal grace.
It comprises the post-baptismal rites of anointing, the laying on of hands, and the words” BE SEALED WITH THE GIFT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT;” It is the ratification of Baptism.
For those who were baptized as infants, Confirmation provides an opportunity to ratify FREELY and DELIBERATELY what was done at Baptism. It helps to focus their minds and the minds of the entire community on the essentially Missionary dimension of the baptismal commitment.
Confirmation concludes the initiation process begun at Baptism which is where the name of the sacrament came from.
Initiation, Not Graduation
Confirmation is meant to be a “new” beginning for our involvement in a life of faith and community. Unfortunately, all too often it becomes a rite of exit.
So, parents who make “deals” with their children that once they are confirmed they don’t have to participate in church or religious formation are doing their child(ren) a great disservice.
We understand that at this stage of adolescence there are a series of disagreements, questions – even battles – over values; but if we do not continue to emphasize the importance of a faith life and faith community once they are confirmed, then our children will be hard-pressed to want to make it a priority on their own.
Community
It is important to belong, and young people must realize their Confirmation gives them a special status and role in the parish community and the whole Church.
It is necessary, also, to help the parish to recognize their part in Confirmation preparation. The parish of committed adults helps young people better understand the Christian community and the beliefs passed on to succeeding generations through the community. Presentation of the candidates during Sunday liturgies, Rite of Acceptance and Rite of Election, prayer for these young people during their preparation, and Sunday homilies about community involvement will strengthen the bonds between candidates and parish.
Prayer and Worship
Helping young people to pray and build a deep and lasting relationship with God is a primary goal of catechesis. The Confirmation preparation process provides opportunities to develop a prayer life, both personally and communally. There should be a good balance between personal prayer and liturgical prayer, and the opportunity for celebration of Eucharist and Reconciliation. Parents and or sponsors will need to hear the prayers of the candidates then sign the “Prayers to Memorize” sheet included in this packet.